Abigail & Jeremy

Know how people often say that opposites attract; how very undoubtedly/undeniably true!

Let me give you a crash course on two of my very close buddies, namely Abigail and Jeremy,

(their names form AJ, I KNOWW RIGHT! :D)

Abigail Ngai, the oldest of 3 siblings in the Ngai family is the epitome of all chit-chatting! Born with such fluency and clarity of speech, Abby has always been the one to speak out and make a difference. Talking.. It's not a bad thing at all, really.. UNTIL it comes to her enduring love for korean dramas & entertainment [oh, mercy!], believe it or not, that's when my ears magically develop an extra layer of skin that covers my external auditory meatus and shunts out all of that :) // Moving on, Abby loves pink, Good Day chocolate milk, ballet, happy endings, chic-flicks & lit. A happy and generally optimistic person who looks at life from different perspectives and embraces challenge instead of sitting and sulking about it. Also a very "girl power" type girl who is all about women rights and believes that a girl is perfectly capable of overcoming just about anything the world throws at her and does not necessarily need a man to be whole. Most of all, Abby is w/o a doubt dependable, trustworthy, loyal and all in all a friend for all season :)

Jeremy, who is regularly associated with porn and things of this sort was a pretty young and curious mind I presume *chuckles*. His wacky and sometimes bizarre behavior has often been a trait that most people like about him, he jokes a whole lot and laughs at problems, which is good thing, looking on the bright side of things and all :) // On the other hand, being a writer by nature, he uses his words to express his feelings and emotions as well as to write great essays and posts on his blog. Another way to describe Jeremy, (as Miss Mei puts it) "super-emo-melodramatic-melancholic". He is into PC games that strikes me as a extremely mediocre interest *snickers*, and can go on for hours about this graphic card, about that orange box and about these expansion packs. (Yes, I have been paying attention to your conversations, dude) Jeremy has also been blessed with a listening ear and warmth that comforts and cares for others; he offers help as much as he provides help, really..

As REGULARLY as they don't get along and disagree on things, they too seem to fit in ever so perfectly in each others life. Though they might be worlds apart in character, but they definitely care for each other immensely.

No one knows what the future holds... Whose to deny that
nothing will happen in the future?

- c h e r

song for the moment

Adele - Chasing Pavements

I've made up my mind, don't need to think it over

If I'm wrong I am right, don't need to look no further

This ain't lust, I know.. This is love

But.. If I tell the world, I'll never say enough,

Cause it was not said to you, and that's what exactly I need to do,

If I'd end up with you

Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements?

Even if it leads nowhere.

Or would it be a waste? Even if I knew my place

Should I leave it there?

Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements?

Even if it leads nowhere.

I build myself up and fly around in circles,

Wait then as my heart drops and my back begins to tingle

Finally, could this be?

Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements?

Even if it leads nowhere?

Or would it be a waste? Even if I knew my place

Should I leave it there?

Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements?

Even if it leads nowhere.

- Funny how I got hooked on this song only NOW.

Slow much? Hahahas! Xp

- c h e r

withstanding the heat

Fire? Heat? Nah, it ain't just about the physical flames that blazes and burns in reality.

It was just last week where we watched a movie at CF called Fireproof: Never Leave Your Partner Behind, it revolves around a fireman, Caleb and his wife, Catherine who is a PR person. Both of them weren't believers of the Lord and were going through a rough patch in their marriage; being head over heels was anything BUT evident in their current position as a couple. They were screaming about how one doesn't meet the others needs, throwing a fit when chores at home weren't done and ultimately living a life that didn't reflect their love one another and so on. As time passed, their arguments got worse until the point of considering a divorce, Catherine wanted out and just could not bare it any longer.

They might not look pist at each other in this picture

but I assure you, THEY WERE..

VERY VERY pist indeed.

Coming to know about this situation, Caleb's dad advised him as well as calmed him down and imparted words of wisdom into his life. He urged his son to hang on to his marriage for 40 more days, during which a book was be sent to him requiring him to fulfill certain tasks, Love Dare it was called. This book contained various instructions and orders that one must do willingly and sincerely to make a marriage a success. Even though he was reluctant, Caleb took the book and promised his dad that he would go through the 40 days and will not quit. Easier said than done of course, as challenges and trials stood in his way he overcame them with ease at first but during the latter part, it took so much out of him that he was overwhelmed and down throdden.

Later, Caleb's dad shared his heart with his son, telling him about his struggles in his own marriage and how that 40 days changed their lives and gave them a love great enough to last a lifetime. It was all about the Christ; for His love and sacrifice is without a doubt the greatest mankind has and ever will know.

I'm not going to go on and on about what happened, I mean I could but I won't because I think you guys should check it out for yourselves.

BUT, i can tell you.. They finally became this <3

- c h e r